My father-in-law. I call him the General.
We were over at his house today. He denied that Aj has difficulties. Later he had Ki set the table and had her do the dishes, because that is "what girls do".
Atleast he has high expectations for Aj. I think/hope Ki will come to realize how archaic and idiotic his views are. She certainly has no difficulty speaking her mind.
For now I just stay quiet, to maintain the family peace. ...mmmm....